Enemies of peace: FRUSTRATION

Enemy is a war-word, but I wanted to make the statement strong. We can say “obstacle” but I believe it’s more than that.

The frustration I am thinking of is aligned with fatalism. (Frustration is more active while fatalism moves towards coma.)

“The world is in a mess, people are disagreeing, quarreling, shouting, shooting and killing each other. Everything if going down the drain… and… there’s just nothing I can do about it… How frustrating it all is!”

If it really were so — that you could do nothing — it would be bad indeed. But there are things we can do. The situation can be changed.

-How? And whence your optimism?

I am optimistic because we are the situation. We are inside of it, not outside.  That’s reason for hope.

I am not only a cat, I am also part of the house and the household.

So there is reason for hope. Very importantly, we don’t really KNOW what is possible until we have tried. Surmising will not do.

The danger of frustration/fatalism is that it makes us resign and give up at the very first step.  We lose before even entering the contest. The best, certainly the cheapest, way to win a war is making your opponent think he has no chance of winning.

He will surrender without even having collected himself and his forces. Just listen to Mr Fatalist.

FIND failure REPLACE success

Since frustration and fatalism are so strong it is VERY IMPORTANT to get them out of the way and regain hope, restore  faith in our ability to change things.

I mean, look at me. Who am I? A musician, a pianist who got into his head that he could perhaps make a BIG difference with these thoughts about peace and Venus.

A cardinal aspect of the question is  doing. Action is needed. But not just muscular effort fueled by strong emotions, not just shouting slogans in a protest march. That is not enough.

Thinking is needed, but that also is not enough. Intelligent thinking needs be aligned with action.

When we actually DO something we immediately feel less frustrated. That also goes for shouting in a protest march, but I personally distrust slogans and emotion-based shouting. Yes, it is good to shout away, as Sally Bowles did in Cabaret under a railway bridge. But shouting and marching will just get rid of surplus energy; it will not create harmony.

You can hear the paradox and dissonance of that. Harmony is not born from disharmony.

Fighting fire with fire.

So we need to act but also think carefully about WHAT to do. Sometimes  this is not hard at all. A very simple, but still often not performed action  is SHARING.

Instead of sharing fun videos and pictures of cute animals we can share important thoughts with our friends and acquaintances. If they also realize the “Power of Now Share” the rings on the water can grow into substantial proportions. What was mere marginal intellectual effort can turn into intelligent heat wave, which in turn waters the soil for a harmonious future.

There are other things one can do, like meeting with friends and arrange occasions for discussing peace and unite in activities such as music making, philosophical/paxological cafes, etc.

If possible, try to meet in the real broadband of the IRL world (= all the senses are online, as opposed to the ridiculously low (but admittedly fast) bandwidth of the digital world). In the digital domain it is soo easy to just sit and sit, click here and there, but not do much more.

And more is needed for peace.

So give Venusian peace a chance and watch out for the frustration virus. You could start by sharing this article.

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